That Scared Little Girl

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  • Just hit something

    A few weeks ago I tried something I guess I secretly had always wanted to try, but just didn’t really know about until recently. I went boxing. A good friend of mine joined a group boxing gym a few months ago and has had really good things to say about it. “Oh my gosh, that…

    That Scared Little Girl

    March 28, 2023
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    hope, healing, learning, mindfulness, curiosity, growth, growing, boxing, strength, power, confidence, anger, discovery, health
  • Gentleness Breaks

    If you’ve been reading along on my journey for awhile, or even if you just started with the last blog (Dear Dad…), you may have noticed that this journey does not come easily or naturally. At times it can be very uncomfortable. It takes a lot of work. And that work can be hard. After…

    That Scared Little Girl

    March 25, 2023
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    aca, acoa, adult child of alcoholics, fun, gentleness break, growing, growth, healing, lighthearted, mindful, mindfulness, rest, self care, work
  • Dear Dad…

    On and off for the last few months, I’ve been slowly trying to work through the chapters of Adult Children of Alcoholic Parents: An Evidence-Based Workbook to Heal Your Past by Kara Lissy, LCSW. My sister recommended this book awhile back and I really like it as a guide. It is a lot of work,…

    That Scared Little Girl

    March 17, 2023
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    acoa, adult children of alcoholics, adult daughter of alcoholic, alcoholic family, alcoholism, dads, fathers, forgiveness, hate, healing, honesty, letter writing, repentance, unfiltered
  • Overcommunicate With Me, Please

    This past weekend I had another triggering moment. The moment itself was so small, hardly noticeable. To most other people, the event would have passed without so much as an acknowledgement. But for me, not only did I notice it, I felt beat across the face with it… hard. Lately, I’ve been doing pretty good…

    That Scared Little Girl

    March 10, 2023
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    acoa, adult child of alcoholics, adult children of alcoholics, adult daughter of alcoholic, alcoholic family, anxiety, communication, confused, confusion, family, fear, healing, hope, scared
  • Free Indeed

    Last weekend I read Becoming Free Indeed: My Story of Disentangling Faith from Fear by Jinger Vuolo (formerly Duggar). I finished it in two days. It was a fairly short read, but I was mostly intrigued by how much I related to her story of fear, confusion, and uncertainty. While our families and home lives…

    That Scared Little Girl

    March 4, 2023
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    adult children of alcoholics, Becoming Free Indeed, church, church hurt, church trauma, cult, freedom, growth, healing, hope, Jinger Duggar Vuolo, religion, spiritual authority, umbrella of authority
  • Gold

    Gold

    We know the saying “Not all that sparkles is gold.” For some of us, we take it a step further. “Nothing that sparkles is gold. It just can’t be. It probably doesn’t even exist.” We’ve made it a way of life. Skeptical. Suspicious. Doubting everything. It can be exhausting when you don’t trust anything or…

    That Scared Little Girl

    February 21, 2023
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    anxiety, disappointment, fear, gold, growing, healing, honesty, hope, learning, life, mindfulness, positive, scared, sincerity
  • Presently present

    Are you able to take a moment and just be where you are right now? Is it hard to take your mind off of what comes next and just breathe in the … Presently present Wanted to share this beautiful post I found from a new blogger. ❤️

    That Scared Little Girl

    February 18, 2023
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  • Cool Breeze and Catfish

    No not catfished, catfish. Specifically fresh, thin, and fried. Earlier this week, out of no where, this thought walked into my headspace and altered me a bit. Wait a second, what about the good memories? What about the good times I had as a child in my family? Most of the time I’ve been focused…

    That Scared Little Girl

    February 17, 2023
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    blog, curiosity, dads, family, fathers, honesty, joy, life, mindful, mindfulness, sincerity, story, storytelling, thoughts
  • Stronger

    It has been a week. While it’s not all bad, there have been quite a few unexpected challenges and costs that have come up. And the overwhelming thoughts and feelings creep in. A lot of changes and new things. A lot of work consuming my time, suffocating me with the reminder that there will never…

    That Scared Little Girl

    February 10, 2023
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    anxiety, fear, growing, growth, healing, hope, learning, lyrics, mindful, mindfulness, scared, story, storytelling, work
  • Journals of Old

    This past week I decided to crack open a few very old journals. The first official journal I kept began when I was 13 years old. A lot of what was written is a bit ridiculous, dramatic, and all over the place as you would probably expect from any 13-year-old. Favorite bands and musicians, tv…

    That Scared Little Girl

    February 1, 2023
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    acoa, adult child of alcoholics, adult children of alcoholics, adult daughter of alcoholic, alcoholic family, alcoholism, anxiety, Christian, education, family, fear, growth, healing, hope
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